Lately, I have been thinking about the word respect. Its meaning, how important it is and how it affects our relationships. I was brought up making sure that respect is deeply sewn in my mind and heart because it is fundamental in everything that we do. I am making two children grow making sure that they understand all facets of the word respect. With them, my lessons are not confined to relationships with other people but also with insects, animals, plants, toys and space. Because if not, they would start stepping on every grasshopper they see, suffocate all the butterflies they catch, rip apart the leaves of my plants, break every toy they have or go through all the drawers that they see. Imagine that.
23 April 2014
18 April 2014
It's always a struggle to find a butcher who sells thick pork belly in Rome. Because pork belly is the fresh pancetta (not the cured one), they are only more than willing to go to a maximum of 1/2 centimeter to slice them because not only is it pork but it's also full of fat. Sigh. When I ask for a slice thicker than 1/2 centimeter, they reluctantly obey and slice, some even asking if I am sure. Once, the butcher even didn't obey my husband's request and she went on slicing 1/2 centimeter pieces while saying that pancetta can't be thicker than that! Needless to say, that ended of our meat shop-client relationship.
17 April 2014
As soon as I entered the house and dropped my bags, I looked around and re-absorbed as much detail as I could. I had been gone for 10 days and it felt like a month. I had been so busy in my press trip to Georgia that I didn't really have the time to think about what I had been missing back home. Right at that moment, as I was standing in the middle of my kids' room looking at their beds, toys and sweaters hanging on the rack, I suddenly realized how much I missed them and my husband. My family. They had been really great in taking care of each other while I was away. I couldn't ask for anything more. Well maybe one - a weekend getaway with the three of them. We deserved it.
15 April 2014
Another year has passed and I find myself unprepared again for the Easter holiday. I did remember to buy small Easter chocolate eggs for the kids about a month ago after my daughter prodded me to buy some for herself and her brother. Looking at packs of chocolate eggs jolted me back to reality. Can Easter be just around the corner? Now, we are just five days away and I have yet to rush to the chocolate shop and get them their proper big chocolate Easter eggs with gifts inside. It's like a mini-Christmas for them, excitedly guessing what can be inside their eggs.
13 April 2014
I have to be honest with you. Almost a year ago, when I first encountered the word Georgia, my first thought was the U.S. state then when I Googled it, I remembered that yes, there is a country named Georgia. I'm not really proud of my lack of knowledge but ask me now and I can tell you proudly where and how Georgia is. And I can also tell you how this country and its people touched my heart. It's also the place where I learned what real hospitality means, to be treated well and to feel connected to life, food and wine.
09 April 2014
Social networks make our worlds smaller and accessible. If not for these networks, how much friendships could have been lost and just remembered as being part of our lives once? Once in our life. But this doesn't happen anymore especially with Facebook keeping us all connected to our past and present. I have reconnected with so many people from my past and it's a wonderful feeling to pick up the pieces of what we have left off, even from 25 years ago.
06 April 2014
Care to have a few more calories in one bite? I promise you, it's all worth it. Think plantains - fried then coated with melted sugar THEN dipped in dark chocolate and Nutella sauce. It's magic! I already love the caramelized plantains but when dipped in the super chocolaty sauce, well, that's another story.
04 April 2014
I am home! When my feet touched the Italian ground with the resonating noisy chatter of conversations around me with the familiar language, I suddenly realized how I missed Italy. It had been exactly 10 days that I had been away. My husband picked me up at the crowded airport and instinct told me where to look because I immediately spotted him amidst the flow of people. Slowly, during the day, as my family was completed, picking the kids up from school, I felt the completeness of having a home to feel settled into. Home is not just a place, it can also be important people or food that make you feel rightly in place.
26 March 2014
25 March 2014
There! I finalized everything that has to be done in my list before I fly to Georgia. I officially have 2 hours at the moment before my husband, daughter and I pick up our son in school and go out for lunch then to the airport. He's going out early today from school to see me off at the airport while our daughter has been staying home since yesterday for an on-off slight fever. She plays, paints and colors all day to her little heart's content, like a toddler holiday. In fact, she drew me a picture to take with me with a big yellow magic sun.